The Fine Art of Starting Again

This month in the Be Well Blog, we hear from our Cornwall Correspondent, Jonathan Woods, about the art of starting again after a set-back.

Jonathan lives with a life-limiting disease, and has found it hard to stay active during lockdown. But he’s determined to get active again, one step at a time.

This post is adapted from an article in this month’s Bugle. You can read the full article and all the other great content from the latest edition here.

A photo of Jonathan Woods, a man wearing an orange t-shirt and beige shorts and standing with a walking stick, smiling at the camera
Jonathan lives with a life-limiting disease which affects him both physically and mentally.

I used to be physically active every day, but, during lockdown I found it all too easy not to do anything and I’m struggling to get going again! I tell myself that it’s OK not to do anything and though I know full well the benefits of physical activity, I still don’t do it!

In the past being physically active with other people has been a way of increasing my commitment and forced me (out of loyalty) to be physically active when really I didn’t want to! It also forced me to communicate more clearly and to socialise – neither of which I do naturally!

A physiotherapist once explained to me that I shouldn’t be hard on myself, and that I shouldn’t “see” not being physically active as failure. In her view it was always “better to do something than nothing”.

I suspect that the best thing I could do to restart physical activity is to do a little at a time – say once a week to start with, and see how that goes before trying to do more.

And I also need to make my physical activity different this time around. This will force me to learn something new and interesting and make me extend myself. This should, in turn, also help prevent boredom.

I am sure I will find something new for me – it’s just a matter of making the time to find it, to be flexible and to be open to doing something that I hadn’t expected to do. I also know that I will need to make an effort and find the energy to get started. After which it is easier to do it again. What I really need is Be Well Cornwall!

Quo Vadis, Eat Well

This month in the Be Well Blog, we look back at our popular Eat Well programme, which sought to fight both social isolation and food poverty.

This post is adapted from an article in this month’s Bugle. You can read the full article and all the other great content from the July 2021 edition here.

Eat Well serves up delicious, healthy food for local people

When two young local chefs became concerned about rising levels of food poverty and food waste and the need to fight social isolation the Eat Well journey began.

Eat Well Glossop is the brainchild of James Bouchier and Vicky Murphy, who, seeing the scale of in-date supermarket food being sent to landfill, set out to change the world (or at least that bit of it local to them).

Sourcing main ingredients from FareShare (a national surplus food distributor) and backed by a team of amazing volunteers, Eat Well Glossop started planning, preparing, cooking and serving delicious meals for anyone who wanted to come along.

As Vicky remembers, “Our first event was in November 2017 and we had fifteen customers. People were as likely to eat alongside complete strangers as their neighbours and the whole point was social eating in a friendly atmosphere. There was no charge for the food, and donations went straight to providing the next meal. Before long we were running three sessions a month with 50 to 60 customers per meal.”

However, with the chefs’ growing workloads elsewhere, it was decided to “mothball” Eat Well in early 2020 and bring it back when we could.

And now, thanks to a National Lottery grant, we can! The team has been reconvened over tea and cake and everyone is keen to stay involved. Details are yet to be worked out but we want to involve older people and young children, as well as using produce from Glossop Community Allotment. We are, indeed, cooking with gas.

Kings, knaves, landowners or labourers?

This month in the Be Well Blog, we hear from Be Well Quizzer and heritage researcher Sue Featherston about her quest to learn more about her mysterious great-grandmother.

This post is adapted from the article Sue wrote for us in this month’s Bugle. You can read the full article and all the other great content from the March 2021 edition here.

A photo of Sue Featherston, a blonde woman with glasses, smiling
Sue first got interested in genealogy because of her great-grandmother's exotic name

Sue was intially captivated by her great-grandmother’s name, Elvina Sarah Le Boutillier, French, exotic and fascinating? She had to know more. 

My quest to learn about Elvina began in the Eighties. Pre-internet, this meant squinting at microfilm in the library photographing gravestones, capturing details, dates and family relationships. Slowly my family history took shape, like a giant jigsaw. 

Forty years on, the family tree spans centuries. Elvina’s forebears lived on Sark at the behest of Elizabeth I, defending the island against the French; they were given land as a reward.  My 10-times great grandfather Robert Sloley was the first Judge of Sark, where his house can still be found.  

Not French, Elvina was ‘Jersiaise’. Not exotic, she was from a farming and sea-faring family. Fascinating she remains. How, and why, did she travel to grimy, Victorian Manchester. How did she meet and marry Joe?  

You can now do armchair research 24/7, and it won’t take 40 years! There are free-to-use websites, and organisations like Ancestry and Findmypast which charge subscriptions. Quiz your oldest family members. Don’t put it off. Record family stories; identify photographs; collect BMD certificates; study censuses and parish records. Take a DNA test: mine found two second cousins, and dozens more relatives.  

Be prepared – you will find skeletons in the cupboard; there will also be heroes.  

Find out who you really are. Go on, you know you want to. 

Gary Barlow backs Be Well

To celebrate the inaugural post on our blog, we’re highlighting one of our favourite pieces from the February edition of the Bugle – superstar Gary Barlow showing his support for Be Well!

You can read the rest of this month’s Bugle here.

Last month, Vicky Murphy, our Intergenerational Lead, had the opportunity of a lifetime to chat to her her childhood hero on live radio! 

The interview with Mancunian Gary, whose career started in the boy band Take That, was set up by BBC Radio Manchester after the Glossop Chronicle did an article on the project, which links locked down older people with youngsters by having them writing letters to each other. Gary heard Vicky being interviewed on the Mike Sweeney Show and said he’d like to speak to her. And just after Christmas their chat went out on 40 BBC local stations around the country.

Singer Gary Barlow wearing a white suit during a live performance.
Gary Barlow first found fame in 90s boy band Take That, and has since enjoyed a successful solo career
Vicky is a young woman crouched between two little boys. They are playing indoor curling and laughing.
Vicky works hard to bring people of all ages together, in person when possible and through the Do the Write Thing project when we can't meet in person

“It was like a dream come true,” Vicky told The Bugle. “A month later, I’m still pinching myself!”

Vicky explained Do the Write Thing to Gary: “My job is helping improve older people’s wellbeing using intergenerational activities like singing or reading together. During lockdown, instead of actually bringing them physically together I organised a project where they could write to each other.”

Gary said: “What a brilliant idea you’ve had there! It always amazes me. When you came on Radio Manchester, I thought this personality I’m hearing is going to lead to something great. Well done you and what a brilliant idea.” 

Vicky has, officially, been walking on air ever since.

If you or someone you know – of any age – would like to be part of Do the Write Thing, please ring us on 07590 839421. 

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